‘The dog is better behaved than she is’: New mom mooching off brother demands he get rid of his doggo for her comfort, he kicks her out in response

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Blake Seidel • Managing Editor & Brand Manager
Feb 17, 2025 11:00 AM EST

You know how the saying goes, friends: beggars can't be choosers. You can't inconvenience someone and then be picky about the way they help you - not only is it not polite, it's just silly. We were in a ruff place a few years ago, and we actually had to move in with our sister. She welcomed us with open arms, even though she lived in a tiny apartment and we slept in her "living room" which was also connected to the kitchen and entry way. We didn't complain. In fact, we did everything we could to make our burden on her lighter.

Well, not everyone thinks the way we do, appawrently. When one new mom moved in with her brother and her new baby, all she had were complaints about his "dirty" dog. She asked him to keep the dog locked in a room while the baby was out, which is ridiculous as golden retrievers are actually amazing with babies. Well, one thing led to another, and he kicked her out. Scroll down to read the full story below!

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    A**A for Kicking My Sister and Her Newborn Out Because She Keeps Calling My Dog ‘Dirty’?

    'Beggars can't be choosers'
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    So, my sister (32F) just had a baby and needed a place to stay for a few months. I agreed because, you know, family. The only issue? I have a golden retriever, Max, who is my baby. He's well-groomed, trained, and literally the sweetest dog ever.
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    From the second she moved in, she started making snide comments about how "dirty" he is, saying things like:
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    "Dogs don't belong inside, especially near a newborn!" • "He's covered in germs; I don't want my baby getting sick." • "Can you lock him in a room when we're in the living. room?"
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    I tried to compromise by keeping him out of the nursery, but that wasn't enough. She wanted me to keep him out of the house entirely. She even went as far as spraying disinfectant on my couch where he sleeps!
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  • We get wanting to protect your child from anything that could be dangerous. However, some things are dangerous, and others are not. A hot stove is dangerous. A golden retriever is not. Simple as that.

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    The final straw? I caught her Max away with her foot when he came near the baby's playmat. I lost it. I told her if she has such a problem with my "dirty" dog, she can find another place to stay. She freaked out, called me heartless for prioritizing
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    a dog over her and the baby, and left crying. Now, my parents are furious, saying I should have been more accommodating.
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    So, A A for kicking my sister out over this?
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    • Ok_Call3670 12h ago What the h I? Having a baby with no plans of where to stay after? Give her a week, tell her to move in with your parents. She knew you had a dog going into living. with you.
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    Faster Than Newts • 12h ago Top 1% Commenter She's a bit old to be mooching off people. She needs to learn to be thankful for people helping her out. Your dog stays and she can go. NTA
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    Ok_Homework_7621 • 18h ago NTA Top 1% Commenter Max was there first.
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    Make sure none of them have your key, just in case they decide to do something to make your place more baby-friendly. Plus it's because there's growing evidence exposure to dogs is good for immunity.
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  • Dogs make everyone's lives better - even babies! It's true, from what we've read, babies being around dogs actually helps strengthen their immune system. Can't argue with science (although it doesn't stop some people from trying)!

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    Mortician Molly • 12h ago Top 1% Commenter So when are your parents coming to pick up your sister and the baby? They are going to have them stay there aren't they?
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    BisforBeard 12h ago Top 1% Commenter Who cares what your parents think. They can house your homeless sister and her baby if they care about her! NOBODY who kicks a dog deserves any sympathy!!!
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    Tall_Relative_4231 • 12h ago NTA u cant go live with someone and complain about their own life and act all entitled when you get kicked out over it
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    DiscussionAdmirable9 • 12h ago nta. your parents need to be reminded that this wouldn't be an issue at all if your sister had her own housing. how you come up in my house, needing a place to stay, and start disrespecting me and my pet? crazy behavior.
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    BlueGreen 1956 • 12h ago ΝΤΑ Top 1% Commenter She learned that it's not wise to bite the hand that feeds you. Tell your parents to take her in.
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    celeigh87 11h ago I get keeping the dog out of the nursery and keeping a bit of distance between the dog and baby, but its your house. Its up to you as to whether or not the dog is in the house. She can find somewhere else to stay if she has a problem with it.
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    Cake_Lynn 12h ago It's not your fault your sister got herself into this situation. She's taking advantage of your kindness, instead of being thankful. NTA
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    TimeHospital1469 • 12h ago NTA you did something kind for her and she sh all over you. She can now go stay w your parents.
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    Gemfyre1 • 12h ago Nta. Tell her the dog is better behaved than she is.
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    Fun-Extension-6116 12h ago Why would she move in with someone who has a dog if she doesn't want to be around a dog? ΝΤΑ
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    friendlily ⚫12h ago Top 1% Commenter NTA. Beggars can't be choosers. She's living in your house for free and your house has a dog that also lives there. Her choices were to be respectful of you and the dog or gtfo. She chose option two.
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    agnesperditanitt • 12h ago ΝΤΑ Top 1% Commenter I am not the biggest dog lover in this planet, but I also would never move into a house, where a dog already lives and expect, that the dog's owners get rid of the dog to accommodate me.
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    Your sister knew about your dog and still moved in, so she better learns to live with your dog or just move out. And as your parents are so opinionated and also family, they sure will be delighted to house their daughter and their grandchild.
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